newspaper and decided to put it on my blog. I had heard of the old-time preacher
Here you will be inclined to lay this
article down, and sidestep facing this fault in your own life. Don’t do it.
Face the issue. There is too much at stake in the careless use of our tongues.
Dodging the issue is dangerous and costly both to ourselves and to others.
In one church, some years ago, over three
hundred people withdrew their fellowship because of a falsehood circulated by
one woman. Only God can estimate the damage done, first to His work in the
church, and second to those who withdrew; for as far as can be learned all but
about fifty have cooled off, backslidden and some even gone back into outbroken
sin. True, they should have investigated the story before believing it, but when
reputable people repeat a tale, even a lie takes on the respectable clothing of
truth. The more favor and honor God showers upon us, the more weight our words
bear.
With us Christians, what we could do as
slaves of sin, we dare not do as kings and priests of God, lest we divide Christ’s
Body, harm Christ’s prestige, and mar Christ’s plan.
We need to be especially on guard against
evil speaking when we are going through a hard testing, a time of chastening,
for then it is easy for discouragement, resentment, and bitterness to get into
our souls. In such times of heaviness, everything seems dark, faith is hard to
grasp, and our bitterness may flare out to defile many. By such careless
unbridling of our tongues in backbiting, we leave our proper place of trust and
fellowship with God as priests in the Holy Place.
Evil speaking and criticism are sure
evidences of conceit and pride in our hearts. They spring from an assumption of
superiority and mastery which exalts us to the position of judging others. As
James puts it, "Speak not evil one of another, brethren. He that speaketh
evil of his brother, and judgeth his brother, speaketh evil of the law, and
judgeth the law; but if thou judge the law, thou art not a doer of the law, but
a judge" (James 4:11).
Any careless talk, any bitterness hinders
the Holy Ghost and His work. Paul says: "And grieve not the Holy Spirit of
God, whereby ye are sealed unto the day of redemption. Let all bitterness and
wrath, and anger, and clamor, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all
malice; And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another,
even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you" (Ephesians 4:30-32).
Our unguarded talk not only embarrasses
the Holy Ghost and hinders His work, but it denies the very love He is
endeavoring to produce in us.
Evil speaking (criticism, gossip, scandal
mongering, backbiting) works more ill to our neighbors than all other things
combined, dishonors God, grieves the Holy Ghost, and brings disrepute to the
name of Christ. It does no good to us, to others or to God; it is evil and no
good is in it.
Evil speaking and criticism not only work
ill to others and grieve the Holy Ghost, but also do us infinite harm. We are in
a battle. In war, the watchword is "Watch." "Be on your guard
constantly." One of the most effective tricks in fencing or boxing is to
get the opponent’s attention on something else for a second, and then strike
him. This is also one of Satan’s favorite devices. While watching others’
faults, our own are forgotten, to Satan’s delight.
Christ’s most stinging irony is:
"Judge not, that ye be not judged. For with what judgment ye judge, ye
shall be judged; and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you
again. And why beholdest thou the mote (splinter) that is in thy brother’s
eye, but considerest not the beam (4 x 12 plank) that is in thine own eye? Or
how wilt thou say to thy brother, let me pull out the mote out of thine eye;
and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye? Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam
out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out
of thy brother’s eye" (Matthew 7:1-5).
When our brethren offend us, instead of
backbiting them, we do as we are commanded: "Moreover if thy brother shall
trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and he alone; if
he shall hear thee thou hast gained thy brother. But if he will not hear thee,
then take with thee one or two more, that in the mouth of two or three witnesses
every word may be established. And if he shall neglect to hear them, tell it
unto the church; but if he neglect to hear the church, let him be unto thee as
an heathen man and a publican"-- Jesus (Matthew 18:15-17).
Paul sums the matter up in this glorious
promise: "Now the God of peace, that brought again from the dead our Lord
Jesus, that great shepherd of the sheep, through the blood of the everlasting
covenant, make you perfect, in every good work to do his will, working in you
that which is well pleasing in his sight, through Jesus Christ; to whom be glory
for ever and ever. Amen" (Hebrews 13:20,21).